Beautiful Love Moments in a Relationship

The one thing we all struggle with is finding the perfect guy. I know it is quite hard for us men to find the right person in this world but we can make it very much easier by trying out different qualities of a man and learning a few. There are so many qualities of a good lover and they are also as important as those qualities of a bad lover but there are several qualities that you can learn about how to be loved. These qualities would include being honest, caring, understanding, loyal, fun-loving, courteous, intelligent etc. You should try this list by yourself and see what qualities you can learn about love. Here are 10 qualities to look to when looking for love.

1. Being Honest and Caring

Hmmm, if it had to be said and it had to be right then I am sure there must be two kinds of relationships. If someone loves you they will tell you everything and if you don’t like them they will say, I hate you. Of course not! But then all your heart will be 

                    

racing away from you and if it falls on deaf ears then it is just plain wrong and you don’t want this relationship. So when talking about being honest and caring you must be willing to open up and talk about things that may hurt you or upset you. This shows that you have an openness to others and has empathy for their suffering.

2. Lying and Manipulation

It sounds weird but you should never lie to a girl or a guy unless it is going to be a deal-breaker for both of you. People cheat and lie quite often if they want something bad enough but lies can destroy the trust that both are willing to part ways. Lies like "I love you, I can't quit pondering you" are the most awful ones that won't just be goal issues for yourself and the other individual however can destroy the possibilities of them getting into another relationship. This goes hand in hand with lies being told that the other person doesn’t like them and then lying to them and saying all sorts of horrible things are usually involved. Do not tell lies or take advantage of the fact that you are a girl and you feel that the other people just hate you and therefore won’t want anything to do with you. Whenever your heart isn’t in love on both fronts then you are doing more damage than good by making your friends want to avoid you.

3. Manipulation

If you want a certain amount of money or a certain amount of time then you manipulate other people because you think it is better than nothing. If you are the type who likes to spend money on stuff then you need to understand that you can always come back and get that sum of money. If you are quite the liar then you are also prone to manipulation and being

manipulated can kill the relationship very fast. Manipulating a partner will just end up hurting them even more than if you were just manipulating yourself first.

4. Exploitation/Couples Therapy

There is nothing sexier than having a couple who can fight every single day but when they are forced to do this then the fights really can become violent and escalate out of control. Even though the fights can easily turn nasty over the top for some couples if the other person's attitude is really bad then it will take them so long before the anger will go down and they will just end up becoming abusive towards each other. It is completely normal to see couples fighting constantly, fighting a lot, and then just settling down and watching movies or playing video games together until they finally reach an agreement of how they are going to proceed with their argument. Some couples argue over things like religion but the only difference to me will be that if they are arguing over religion, I usually win because I can always see where the other person’s point of view is coming from. But if they are arguing over pornography then it really isn’t that easy because no matter how many times I have seen porn that I didn’t like I still know that the best way to deal with a sexual relationship is through porn and in my opinion we shouldn’t try and force ourselves into something we don’t enjoy in order to please a partner. This simply isn't practical.

5. Sex and Relationships

People who do not like to engage in sex often do and sometimes it is so obvious that they dislike having sex and it really sucks. Most people who are into sex are either lonely or simply don’t enjoy it. What I have seen is that some people love having sex but actually do not like it. They could enjoy it a whole lifetime and still, they will tell you they don’t enjoy sex. Most people who are into sex in particular, and some people with the same experience can agree that having sex is great. At least a lot of these people do not like to have a complete lack of interest and they could say "the other orientation is so incredible, I feel like it will not at any point happen to me, or "the sex is astonishing and I love it, but I really like my own company more so maybe we can switch to one another" It is vital to recall that most people don't cherish everything about their body for sure they look. The majority of people can relate to feeling like they aren’t able to get along with most of their partners and then being jealous but sometimes because our brains don’t work like we should like people so we may try and use them to satisfy ourselves. Many people also do not know that they are human beings and that it is okay for someone else to choose to wear clothes that they feel don’t really fit them, or decide that they don’t like food that they eat and are more of a healthy choice than unhealthy. A large number of people also cannot handle the thought of going to a doctor and having a physical exam and then leaving afterward and feeling exhausted and sore the next day. Even people who love their bodies cannot help but experience periods from time to time when they are tired of being around other people who are fat and obese and people who are skinny and just don’t like them. All types of people can get lonely and feel left out and left out. But being alone doesn’t mean that people aren’t willing to do the best thing for themselves when they want to. And when someone makes you feel like you don’t deserve happiness, I think that is not true at all. Everyone deserves love, happiness, and contentment that comes from true love for one’s self, just like the characters of Harry Potter, The Hunger Games, etc. There are other aspects that can bring people closer together when it comes to dating which is sex. We love being with someone and when we do we often think about sex more. While I personally believe that it is okay to have sex when it comes to a personal decision, I will say that people should definitely have sex when they want to and sometimes they need it to let some of the pressures of life get off of them for a little while.

6. Honesty

Honesty will make or break any relationship and if you want to find love then you need to learn how to be honest with yourself. Most people who have been struggling and struggling might not know how it feels to be truly honest but many people are, it is important for them to find out if they have been keeping secrets from themselves and whether they have been hiding things from anyone. It is quite difficult when trying to find someone new because most people either hide their feelings from others or keep them a secret. Especially if someone was being very interested in you, it seems like honesty might come quite naturally but it is just not an easy task to pull off. Just being aware of your emotions and knowing that no one is judging you is the first step for being truly honest. There are many reasons why some people would rather hide their emotions than share them with the world but it is important to recognize that as soon as you start telling things that aren’t accurate to yourself, you should start talking about them. The best way to start telling the truth is by telling them. Say things that you are truly sorry about them, this can be done on a variety of levels like written or unwritten but it is important to remember that if one starts telling things that aren’t true to themselves then the relationship can quickly fall apart. Just be careful where you speak on topics that you don’t truly know about. By doing this you show that you are capable of being transparent and honest and are not afraid to admit your mistakes. This will allow others to admire you and get to know you better because they already knew all about you. This not only will make it easier for you and others to respect each other but you will feel comfortable sharing even the small details of your life with people who actually care about you.

7. Fun Loving and Courteous

Fun-loving and courteous are two qualities that can really make a relationship last but they are especially important for women because

it means that you will always be able to find someone who wants the same things that you do. As stated earlier, it is okay for people to choose to be nice and respectful to a woman, it is okay for people to accept that a female needs to be taken seriously and that she should have her privacy respected and that she should have the same rights that she does as a man. When a man or woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship then that makes it absolutely imperative that that person will give you the cold shoulder and tell you exactly how he or she is feeling and then tell you exactly what he or she wants. Fun-loving doesn’t mean that the other person thinks that he or she makes you feel stupid or unappealing but rather about how the other person makes