Can Money Buy True Love

 It takes me to spend my Sunday afternoon with the love of my life, the man who makes me smile every day and make me feel like I am falling in love. It is a long time since this day happened for me but now in these days where money can buy everything it can’t even buy true love. It isn’t just him who is making me laugh through those funny times. He is making me realize how much we can learn from each other not only how to do things but if you are truly trying to get into someone then there is no need to have millions of dollars to prove yourself in front of anyone else (sorry to all people who think that way). Yes, if you think about what your partner really wants then you will find yourself living and loving the wrong person and let them take away all your attention because most of the time they don’t need your attention. That alone has made the relationship a whole lot worse, not only will you lose something important in it then you will also end up paying more on rent than what you should really be paying. So many times the best part of a relationship is having someone who loves you and understands you and even being able to live without them or even get bored of them isn’t worth it. This is when you should think twice before wasting your hard-earned money to buy some random guy that doesn’t even know you yet just to satisfy your needs and be with you but the truth is that love at first sight is not what you want because you only go into things hoping that he/she will find someone who knows and cares about you because that’s what relationships are supposed to be like. There are people out there who give their money for dating sites to make you believe that it can’t happen to you and they still do it because they think that it is “fun”. Just like the rest of the social media users, the dating site companies make us believe that it can change our life forever and it won’t cost anything to start up a new account just because there is nothing else to do after all they say to offer. Yes, you still need to pay to use it just like any other services but so few dating websites offer free ones. Those sites are full of fake pictures and lies to make you believe that this is the real thing but the reality is that it is just the same. They might not tell you the truth about the website but they are always telling you how happy the owner is to help you and make you believe that everything will work out as you say they do it when it isn’t in the slightest bit. All you are getting is what you wanted. Isn’t this kind of confusing? How come you choose a guy who just happens to be the one you see in advertisements, and then you don’t even want to know what his name actually says and that you just need to find another chance. You think that money cannot buy you happiness but what you need to understand is how many guys (and girls) on dating sites you have met and you have been with one to another. Why would you want to be with two or even three? Why can’t you settle for just one? The problem with that is that whenever you are looking for someone, you would definitely want to give them all the right to judge you and to know what turns their head because they see the good you bring out in them and they see your passion for different things and they see that you can give them all your heart and soul if you can’t get a boyfriend that is completely decent to you and you can do whatever you want to do with them and never have a girlfriend then what is the point in the dating websites? If you can afford to spend your entire paycheck on someone then why not spend $1000 on their company instead? Don’t get me wrong, it will still be amazing to date someone all by yourself no matter what you like or don’t like, but you shouldn’t forget to spend on yourselves as well.

To conclude, this was an honest post and it didn’t mean to criticize the people that read it but what I would want people think is that there should always be someone out there who thinks that money can buy everyone’s happiness and that you should only date those rich men with lots of money. My answer in the end was “yes, the relationship can’t be that bad and you shouldn’t spend tons of money on someone just to impress them and not treat them the right way”. In the end, it just takes two people who are going through things that are beyond their control to know what they want out of an easy-going person in real life.

So these were my thoughts on dating because I am thinking that it is time to grow up and embrace the fact that we can choose to share certain things with someone or choose to stay alone without spending too much but we can choose to look for someone with whom we trust who brings out the qualities and we can choose to spend our lives with someone that is just the normal person that any of us will find attractive and who is caring about you because it’s just who you are and you can’t change that. So no matter what you want in your relationship then go ahead and enjoy it because at the end of the day who needs the money anyway.