If you had only five words left before losing your voice, what would you say to your loved ones?

 When you lose your voice, how do you tell your family and friends that there is no way back? You can’t write like you used to, or sing like you used to, or talk like you used to… there are just so many choices and things that you have to be cautious of as a parent right now. Some people have an easier time saying what they want, whereas others have more difficulty in telling their loved ones what they need. And as parents we’ve got our own set of complications when it comes to the end of any child’s life. A few things that we think about before deciding on something as simple as a birthday present are whether you feel sad for them or just happy that this little one has gone away. It could be anything from just having been born in a different country. We have all had to live with someone who is not around anymore or that we no longer see in person because they moved on to live their own life someplace else and just doesn’t feel the same anymore. But I think, in the long run, we should always remember the end of another human being’s life. Not only are we sad but we sometimes feel angry at ourselves for ending a person’s existence and getting stuck into being sad because everything went wrong so bad or that it was better to end the person’s life than just hold it all back and not take care of them. Yes, I’m sure that it doesn’t hurt a little bit to let go but if you just don’t know how to say goodbye to someone like that then what good advice would you give yourself? How can you tell yourself you weren’t brave enough? Why didn’t you take the chance to get involved as much as possible? As a rule, I’d say “because he/she wasn’t able to have the best childhood, why should you want to carry the burden of not having the opportunity to have children with everyone else around you? Do you really think you could have had better chances if you were a boy or girl? Probably not. That means that maybe you have bigger opportunities to do great things. Maybe you are lucky to be born in such a beautiful place and can have amazing opportunities just for your sake and your parents’ sake. And I really do believe that every family member should try to give their friend or relative something special or exceptional that they cannot offer themselves before they disappear into the night one day: no matter what happens.

I love you too much to say that, because I’m sorry if you really needed it. You deserve to have a good one as well. Don’t worry about me trying to forget about that memory just so I can be happy for the rest of my days with my new baby girl. She will make an imprint on your heart. My heart just started beating again, like its a regular rhythm that works fine. I don’t mean that to mean that I’m sad or anything. But I still miss her and wish I can remember every single moment of her so that even the smallest part of my life can have its own story to tell. Even if this girl didn’t survive because she’s a lesbian, we should still tell stories about what happened when we met and about the moments where it all just went astray. This isn’t a joke either — it’s just a reminder that the world might have a lot of options to fulfill your desires. And I hope that I’m not losing someone out in order to bring the light of happiness back to your life, so you can share some memories instead. No matter how hard you try to be brave and strong, there will be times where you have to let go of what you do not want anymore so that you can start living those that are truly important to you.

So that’s how I view the situation right now. The person whom you love most in the whole universe might have lost his/her voice and there will come a time where you have to start letting go of all your worries to have the best thing that you can have. Being kind to each other and working towards bringing your lives together and making them perfect will do your soul a lot of good. In addition, having the courage to face your fears, whatever it is, so that you can have happiness in the end too. Just remember that we won’t have any regrets as long as we love each other a lot and try to build a relationship that lasts through life. So let go of the things that may hinder you from finding happiness. Let go of the fears that may arise in your mind. There will be so many paths of happiness waiting for you. Take the ones you need and fill up your chest with all those wonderful feelings. Believe that when you leave this place you’ll never return to this place at all. Try to make the best use of this moment, enjoy every minute of your life with this lovely bundle of joy inside.

To finish this: If you have loved someone, maybe it’s just time for you to stop worrying about tomorrow and start enjoying your future without feeling regret of what you can’t have or won’t have today. Now it’s just time for you to enjoy your child because they are the greatest gift of God. I don’t blame anyone for wanting to have kids but I’d rather spend a second worrying about forgetting because my heart wouldn’t be happy without you. If you see someone crying and thinking about somebody who needs you the most, maybe you realize that you need someone to stand by your side at the darkest time of the night so that everything can go smoothly. Nobody ever knows what tomorrow holds, but you always hope that the next minute is going to be better. Maybe it’s your choice to make it the best day of your life. Do all your actions just lead back to nothing? No! Everything must go perfectly until it ends because you have chosen to be here.