Life is Incomplete without love!!!!!

 

                                 “Love is the greatest force in nature. It moves like 
                                   a gentle wind, and it sweeps across all nations.”
                                                                                                    Robert Louis Stevenson

Love does not exist in its purest form because we love many things that do not truly love us. There's always something else to look for, something greater than our own self. Something more valuable because it shows that we're worth more than what we were the day before. Our heart does get broken when we're not feeling as passionate about certain things as we should be. We have the right to want to love someone until we feel like loving them is an act of betrayal. The word "love" is the same word for what the opposite sex is to each other and why they are attracted to each other. People can't really love someone if they themselves aren't even interested in love at all. People want to stay with who they're currently in a relationship with but if you're dating someone new, you get bored of their personality and lack the passion to actually care about the person you're in a relationship with. This is where two things happen; you can either accept that the person you're currently in a relationship isn't your type or you get jealous about someone else's "love." When it comes to dating, jealousy can cause people to break up from each other and then you find another one. You find yourself wishing that you were in a different relationship but no longer being able to tell whether or not that's true because there are countless other choices besides going back to a boring marriage.

If you look around you and see the typical relationship between couples, it's the complete opposite. They may have fallen in love, but they didn't realize it, they just thought it was so easy and so convenient. They think their relationship doesn't require effort, it just happens overnight. Most relationships start out with a fling but after a couple months or years, they fall into a deeper, more serious relationship because they fell for this person and he/she didn't say it. A few times in my life I've dated someone and we ended up breaking up because he wasn't a good match for me. As soon as he broke up with me, he told me he wasn't happy, he said this on the first date. He said to go find me some kind of a new guy, to make sure they meet once again. He told me no matter how long it would take, he wanted to make sure. A few months later he finally did that and everything changed. Now I'm still together with him and I don't think we'll ever end up breaking up, but if things were different, we could have been happy even though we weren't married, but we weren't. If he ever asks for it, he tells me he loves me and that's enough for me. But I'm too selfish for that. Someone who tells me I shouldn't love him because it can get to complicated, who tells me not to get upset when he gets mad because he does it too. My thoughts are so simple. I want to love him but I don't want to ruin his life. I need to make sure we're both happy and making it work, so if there's someone better, he has to take that chance. That's why so many people cheat on their partners. It's too much stress and they forget to have fun. How many times have you heard the phrase, "Don't let anyone ruin your happiness," yet you've cheated? People will be happier if you show them an example. Don't lie to them about having happy times together. Even if everyone else thinks that you want to cheat on your partner, they'll believe it's true. So be careful what you tell them and how much you tell them how much you love and care about them. Be careful when you kiss and say sweet things because people don't know what lies are. Just know when to pull away and let others know they were wrong.

People say that "love conquers all the world before it conquers any of us." Well that's what I believe and it may be completely wrong. Not everyone wants to admit that they fall in love the second they meet someone and they wish they were going through a bad breakup. Some fall in love during a movie and they hope they can just walk by the side of the road because they feel like nobody else can do anything about it, they just happened to be walking down the street. Maybe it is different for everybody, but no one wants to admit that they fall in love throughout the movie until they're sitting next to you. To be honest, you feel like you want to escape from yourself so you run and keep running. Maybe it happens to you at night while you're looking forward to a fresh start tomorrow morning. Or maybe you just get tired of yourself thinking and realize that some part of you needs a change. We humans need to realize that we need someone who changes our lives. Something bigger than just us, because once we love, it's hard to stop. Sometimes, that person might not even be you.

                      “When you’re in love, you lose sight of yourself” 

                                                                                                Mandy Hale

A relationship is incomplete without being able to share both sides of yourself with a person who makes you happy. You can't live alone and if anyone can help you through the rest of the year, don't ignore that one person. Being with someone everyday is great, you feel like you can't wait to go home to see them every now and then. You become dependent on another person because you've never been able to ask for a day off from them. No matter how much you feel loved and wanted, you're constantly asking and getting from them. Your body goes through highs and lows constantly. Your mind keeps spinning until it starts to feel like it's going crazy. You both can't imagine living without each other. You want to spend the whole month alone, feeling sad about everything and feeling lonely which is a big deal. The moment that your partner walks in the door, you just have the urge to hug them. And don't forget the moment that they go out the door. These moments are extremely important to someone especially if they are not with you. You have to remember all the good things that can come of just knowing your partner. I would never be able to find someone who made me feel the way I do without her. She taught me how to drive, how to cook, how to care for myself and how to survive. She gave me so much advice that you wouldn't take. She even drove me so I could study. Her face lights up whenever she got excited about something that we wanted to do. She helped me to understand what feeling great things would be and that things could turn into something special. You can't tell them how amazing they are without having them with you, that's the best thing you can do to make someone happy. When you feel that person you love, your mind will play tricks on you and you'll want to scream so loud for them. Then the only time you will hear the words "I love you" is when you feel them saying it to you. Everything else is meaningless and it leaves you mentally unstable.

Everyone wishes that they had had to go through years of hardships to be with them because you never really get it. Everyone is looking for somebody who can show you so much and the only person to give you this kind of unconditional love that you deserve is you. You don't want to be someone who spends the rest of your life alone and you do want what your partner has, but it's unrealistic. Nobody is perfect and all relationships have flaws, it's just a unique way to see the world. You can't really love someone else without having to go through hardships, but the only person who could give you all this love is the person you love. Make sure you choose wisely. Think about what you're willing to sacrifice to be with someone and make sure that you don't go wrong. Let them know exactly how much you love and care about them. At the end of the day, you won't be the ones who end up losing or getting hurt if you choose to stick close to your lover even through hell. Yes, you will hurt, but you also have your life back, you don't need any kind of happiness. You need to know that you are worth what other think, so if you're not that person, they're wrong the hell out of you, no doubt.